What are some fun/kinky things to do with your partner?
Last Updated: 02.07.2025 09:19

Find porn or erotica that you both like.
Try different sex positions - Read and go through the Kama Sutra.
Take a sexy shower together. Soap makes pretty good anal lube and clean up is easy.
Take a sensual shower together. Rub your soapy body all over theirs.
Snowball - cum inside her vagina, go down on her and suck it out, and then kiss her and shove your own spunk in her mouth.
69
Prostate massage.
Sex with other couples (or at least near them)
Scented massage oils
Titty fuck
Sex swing
TENS unit - electro shock
Pregnancy play. Ask a woman who's stopped menstruating but wishes she could have more kids whether she wants a boy or a girl just before cumming inside her.
Butt slapping as hard as they can take and enjoy.
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What's a joke you haven't used yet, but are dying to share?
Sex with good friends but not lovers. Keeping the balance is tricky.
Nude co-ed sauna. (Russian banya)
Bite hard on a tough part of you partner's body, like their heel without breaking the skin. Endorphin rush
Candle wax play
Outdoor sex under the real stars
Forced hydration. Drink water during sex until you lose bladder control.
Meet other couples through a Lifestyle website.
Long (hour or more) marathons
Temporary body paint
Psyche keeps its date with an asteroid, but now it’s running in backup mode - Ars Technica
Sex on a hard floor or rug rather than a soft bed
Open her up with a speculum and see what's inside. Give her a mirror or take pictures for her.
Mutual massage which may or may not get erotic
Anal play
Long distance hot video chat with mutual masturbation.
Write your own sexy truth or dare card games.
What was the hottest inappropriate sex you ever had?
New lingerie
Induce squirting with the right techniques.
Fall asleep spooned up, coupled. Can you stay that way when you wake up?
Which movies have the best endings?
Short (5 minutes or less) quickies
Couples massage at a spa
Hair play. (Cowgirl, brushing her long hair over his skin and face)
Sex in public
Sex on the dining room table
Sex club - watch, be watched or fully participate
Mood lighting. Try a sega Homestar planetarium projector
Play sexy truth or dare card games.
Sex on the beach
Sex in a pool
“Rescue” sex - partner lets go and is about to do something dangerous but hold them back at the last second. This takes trust.
Food play (sploshing) - including washing her off in the kitchen sink.
Golden shower
A sexy walk in the park at night, when nobody else is around
Canibalism - eat a tiny piece of each other - typically a nip of you ass cheek. This may leave a small permanent mark, but it was in love.
Golden enema
Hot tubs
Mutual masturbation